Testimonials
JD

“From the moment of first contact with Becca, you’ll receive a warm sense of welcome and feel held in a way that makes the work to come feel less scary. Moving at your own pace and depth in a safe, comfortable, and judgment-free space, Becca skillfully guides you through a sacred journey that offers release and the opportunity for healing as well as growth. Becca’s gentle kindness leads the way as she facilitates a powerful self-discovery process of inner tracking where insights easily surface and mysteries yield clarity. Combining intuition with seasoned tools, methods and magic, Becca is uniquely suited to provide loving calm and useful reflection to propel forward movement without effort or expectation. You leave Becca’s hearth feeling more whole, freer to breathe, more fully embodied, and with a greater sense of faith and trust in both yourself and the external world.”

- JD

Couples work is complex and rewarding.  I am very discerning about the couples I work with as my style is fairly unconventional.  I believe the relational intersection between 2 human beings in intimate connection is a sacred mirror in which each person sees their his/her gifts and wounds reflected in the other.  When I work with couples, I encourage each person looks inward for the source of the friction in the relationship, and as in individual work, to journey back to childhood to heal the source of pain at the root.

I begin by having one or 2 sessions with each partner individually, and then work for as long as desired with the couple together.  Using the inner tool of Focusing, partners witness each other as they dive into themselves for the source of challenge in the relationship.  The intimacy of witnessing one partner search within for what has been previously projected onto the other is exquisite.  Trust deepens and hearts open.  It is an honor and privilege to work with couples willing to do this courageous work.

I am not attached to whether couples remain together or choose another path.  My primary intention is that each person know him/herself more deeply, more intimately, and learn to express his/her deepest truth to the other.

The book that most accurately describes my approach with Couples is called Love and Awakening: Discovering the Sacred Path of Intimate Relationship, by John Welwood, and I encourage people who are interested in doing couples work with me to read it.